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Inverted Reality's avatar

As a white man living and working in Uganda for over 10 years I completely agree and I have been in many similar situations. Here they speak English but in their local languages it seems they have no friendly way of asking things; children will come up to you and say "give me my money" or "give me my sweets". The racism is off the charts here; this tribe is stubborn, this tribe is untrustworthy, this tribe.. The many times I have heard "you whites..", I can't even count it on 100 hands. I have gotten used to the mzungu (white man) price and I have almost become used to people calling me mzungu, even though it keeps being annoying.

The biggest problem I have is with how difficult it is to trust someone. Almost everyone I have encountered have tried to take advantage of me, steal from etc etc. It makes life so tiresome and frustrating, especially since I am here starting projects to help children get better nutrition and I pay it all from my own savings and friendly donors. Sure, I am not poor when next to an average villager but I am definitely not rich. Not even close.

The last part that can be frustrating is simply counting on someone. "I will be there tomorrow in the morning" basically tells you he might come somewhere this year. When you call around noon where he is, he is always "on the way" but even then it can take another week. Ah.. Now that I am ranting, let me add this one; when you fail what you were supposed to do or you break something, it is local customs to just keep quiet until the person confronts you. Freaking annoying. I just explained it to a staff member this morning; if you do this, instead of one problem you have created two. Because not only is the thing broken but now I am more annoyed because you kept it from me.

Let's end this rant in a positive way; the country is beautiful, the climate is great and on a superficial level the people are very friendly.

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In the particular case of The Gambia vs. Senegal, I found The Gambia to be more difficult, with respect to fighting off scammers, etc. I had some strange experiences there that I rarely have in other parts of Africa. It can be the case that one traveler's experience varies from another, it can be luck of the draw (especially at borders).

In the more general sphere of racism, or ethnic mistrust, there is certainly plenty of that around. But what I suffer on the continent in terms of disrespect really feels minor and unimportant. I fight to get a good deal on taxis, etc, just like the Africans I'm sharing the ride with. And I can't count the times people have gone out of their way to help me, in situations where I was at a disadvantage due to not knowing exactly how everyone is supposed to buy tickets, get a meal, etc.

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